||Introduction: The problem that has been misnamed -- Pt. 1: Welcome to the post-dating world. So here's my first question -- ; Dating 101: a crash course ; Ding, dong, dating is dead -- Pt. 2: To date or non-date?. Introducing the non-date ; The group-non-date ; The e-non-date ; The friend-non-date ; The play-non-date ; The networking-non date ; The surprise-non date ; "To thine own self be true -- " and then let's find some love, shall we? -- Pt. 3: The gaggle inventory. Fact : you have a gaggle ; The ex-boyfriend who's still around ; The super horny guy who happens to be around a lot ; The accessory ; The hot sex prospect ; The unavailable guy ; The ego booster ; The guy who just blew you off ; The career booster ; The boyfriend prospect ; The prospect you're not sure is a prospect ; WTF (where the f-ck) is my gaggle? -- Pt. 4: The guy's gaggle. Brace yourself : guys have one, too ; But first, a public service announcement ; The girlfriend prospect ; The work wife ; The short-term investment ; The last resort ; The girl who's out of his league ; The friend he's just not that into ; The challenge ; The crazy girl ; The (maybe) one ; The possibility -- Pt. 5: Love in the time of Twitter. It's not sexting -- it's techno-romance ; Techno-romance : use it for good, not for evil! ; To mom and dad (and the rest of your generation) with so much love : thanks, but no thanks! ; The relationship of the future ; In conclusion -- .